Prevent Ethical Fading in Your Business – An Important Message for Family Businesses

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On April 18, California State University Fullerton Center for Family Business held a workshop entitled “Prevent Ethical Fading in Your Business”.  My first thought was “am I going drive from West Los Angeles to Fullerton at 6:30 am to attend an event which is either an alternative way to discuss DEI or a new type of tanning salon.  I made the drive and was rewarded with an important conversation for family and non-family businesses.

What Is Ethical Fading?

In today’s fast-paced and performance-driven business world, ethical decision-making is often championed as a pillar of strong leadership. Organizations promote integrity, accountability, and transparency. Yet, beneath the surface of well-intentioned policies and values lies a subtle psychological phenomenon that quietly undermines ethical behavior: ethical fading.

Ethical fading occurs when the ethical aspects of a decision are overlooked or "fade" from view, often because individuals focus on other factors such as profitability, deadlines, or loyalty to a team. In these moments, people might not even realize they’re making unethical choices — not because they’re morally corrupt, but because the ethical dimension becomes psychologically invisible.

How Ethical Fading Manifests

Ethical fading doesn't occur in a vacuum. It typically arises in environments where:

  • Pressure to perform is high and results are prioritized over process.
  • Language is sanitized, replacing terms like “cheating” with “creative accounting” or “data manipulation” with “optimizing metrics.”
  • Moral disengagement is facilitated by groupthink or diffusion of responsibility.

For example, a sales team might justify misrepresenting a product’s capabilities by framing it as “highlighting key features,” especially if everyone is doing it and management turns a blind eye.

The Slippery Slope

One of the dangers of ethical fading is its incremental nature. Small ethical lapses become normalized, leading to more significant violations down the line — a phenomenon known as the “slippery slope.” What begins as a minor compromise can evolve into systemic misconduct.

CSUF’s Family Business and Ethical Fading Workshop

Pat Soldano, President of Family Enterprise USA which promotes the growth of family businesses in the United States led the panel.  The panel included 2G Alysha Loumakis-Calderon President of ISYS Solutions, Inc., providing workers' comp case management and continuing education to professionals, and 3G Paul Totten, Co-President and COO of Totten Tubes, a regional steel tubing and pipe distributor

Tim Schultz, Director of California State University Center for Family Business explains how ethical fading became a subject for a workshop.

“Our Women in Leadership Affinity Group suggested the topic for our greater membership, as they had explored it in one of their monthly meetings and wanted a more in-depth discussion with other family businesses.  We are always looking for new subjects to bring to our members and I have not seen Ethical Fading addressed in other family business forums, so thought that it would bring a unique topic for our members to consider,” said Schultz.

CASE STUDY

Pat Soldano shared the following story to demonstrate the nature of ethical fading:

Imagine you own a daycare center. You’re facing a problem: parents often arrive late to pick up their children. This means your staff has to stay late. They become annoyed, frustrated, and burned out. You want to protect your staff, and you want to drive home the message to parents that it’s important to arrive on time. So, you take action.  You introduce a fine for late ups. Each parent who is more than 10 minutes late will have to pay extra.

Will this bold move solve your problem?

The approach will backfire, according to a well-known study published in 2000. The study’s authors worked with 10 different daycare centers and randomly selected six to introduce a system of fines for late pick-ups.  By the end of the study, the centers that introduced the fines had twice as many late pick-ups as those that didn’t introduce the new policy.

Why did it have the opposite effect? The researchers suggested that it was because the fine changed the way the parents perceived their lateness.  Before the fines, their lateness was a moral issue. They were likely to feel guilty or ashamed for arriving late. But after the fine, lateness wasn’t about morality anymore; it was simply a financial decision.  The fine was the price they paid for receiving a service.

Alysha and Paul shared examples of ethical fading in their organizations.  The family business audience members also shared their own firsthand experiences.

Combatting Ethical Fading

So, how can organizations and leaders guard against this silent threat?

Promote Ethical Awareness

Integrate ethics into daily conversations, not just annual training. Encourage employees to consider the moral dimensions of their decisions, even under pressure.

Team Dynamics

Team dynamics also play a crucial role; teams rooted in trust, mutual respect, and shared values are more resistant to ethical lapses, as members support and hold each other accountable for ethical decision-making.

Encourage Dissent

Foster a culture where team members feel safe questioning decisions and voicing concerns. Constructive dissent helps surface ethical blind spots.

Document Policies

Ongoing ethics and compliance training, alongside well-documented codes of conduct and policies, are pivotal for the integrity and success of any organization. Such measures ensure all employees are aware of the legal and ethical standards expected of them, fostering a culture of integrity and accountability.

Family Business Leadership

A family business member(s) must take a leadership role in setting policies to eliminate ethical fading.  When family business members prioritize integrity over expedience, it creates a ripple effect throughout the organization.

Implement Reflective Practices

Regularly reviewing past decisions through an ethical lens can help individuals and teams identify patterns of fading and course-correct before larger issues arise.

Final Thoughts

Ethical fading is rarely intentional — it is the result of psychological and organizational blinders. By acknowledging its existence and taking proactive steps to maintain ethical clarity, businesses can not only avoid scandal but foster a culture where doing the right thing becomes the norm, not the exception.

Panelist Paul Totten shared his perspective on the event, “The conversation today really inspired me to bring our values and ethics more front and center in all we do.”

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Allen Esrock is the Founder of NxtGen Nexus, a platform for the next generation of family business owners which is based on his experience of growing up in a family business. Prior to that he started Jitter Fingers, the first safe, social networking website for tween girls and their bffs with Jitter Finger clubs in 12+ countries and 250+ cities in the US.

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Allen Esrock is the Founder of NxtGen Nexus, a platform for the next generation of family business owners which is based on his experience of growing up in a family business. Prior to that he started Jitter Fingers, the first safe, social networking website for tween girls and their bffs with Jitter Finger clubs in 12+ countries and 250+ cities in the US.

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